SEEK ASSISTANCE ONLY FROM PROFESSIONALS WHO ARE LEGBTQ+ FRIENDLY.
- A good signal is if there are trans friendly (gender affirming) literature (pamphlets) in their looby or within the resource tools available?
- Are there any symbols prominently placed near the door? (Trans colors, rainbow flag?)
- ASK if the doctor has had any experience with trans patients *Note the difference between a doctor who has STUDIED the agenda, or has PRACTICED their studies
- ASK what percentage of the doctor’s clientele is trans
- ASK if the has been any sort of tolerance or sensitivity training offered to the staff
- ASK if an NDA is standard within the office personnel (this is a disclosure that protects you from being outed by any member of the doctor’s staff)
ONCE YOU (and your parents, if supportive) HAVE FOUND A PROFESSIONAL:
- DISCUSS YOUR goals
- DISCUSS your sexual history and planned sexual activities
- DISCUSS any past or planned substance abuse – BE HONEST
- DISCUSS your fears, anxieties, depressions, or any suicidal thoughts – ASK FOR REFERENCES NOW (in the hopes that you will never need them, but will have them if you do!)
- DISCUSS your aspirations for family.
- DISCUSS hormone replacements and affirming surgery plans
Your health care provider should then suggest a course of action and the two of you (with your family) should plan your transition. If at any point you feel your voice is not being heard – speak louder, find an additional source to get a second opinion if the first has given advice that doesn’t fit right for you. Noone has all of the answers, but EVERYONE deserves to be heard and treated fairly.
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